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Couples Sexual Synergy BOOTCAMP

May 16, 2012

Couples Sexual Synergy BOOTCAMP

Looking to add sizzle to your intimate erotic space? Want to enjoy stress free playtime? Do you desire to heighten intimacy and connection while becoming enlightened and empowered? The Sexual Synergy Boot Camp for couples has been created for those adults seeking to expand and enhance their bedroom repertoire.

The Sexual Synergy Boot Camp workshop will cover her and his anatomy of arousal landscapes along with their cause and effects and learning the art of managing expectations with mindful awareness.  We will cover various erotic activities with their respective techniques and skills (self and partner pleasure along with the adventurous use of toys, bottoms up, g-spot/p-spot, female ejaculation, and dp. This will be done through diagrams, lecture and the viewing of explicit material (not necessarily in that order).

What to bring and what to wear?
Wear comfortable attire; bring two bath towels along with a pen/pencil and notebook.

Includes edible treats and jazzy H20
Please Note:

For a private Couples Sexual Synergy BOOTCAMP, please inquire.

Date: Tuesday, June 12th, 2012 (group setting)
Time: 7pm -10pm (3hrs)
Location: Toronto West
SPACE IS LIMITED
Cost:
$120/couple EARLY Bird (before June 9th)
Cost: $140/couple

Register:
viktoria@playfulloving.com

416-887-5621

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Sensual Synergy Experience for Couples

May 16, 2012

Looking for a more sensual and sexy relationship dynamic? Want to enhance your erotic space? Desire a more heightened intimacy and connection? The Sensual Synergy Experience for Couples workshop is for the knowledge seeking, open minded couple looking to continue to stoke or rekindle the fires of passion.

This workshop will cover awareness of self, your partner and your relationship. Confidently learn to negotiate intentions, goals and manage expectations while acknowledging the act of being “receptive” versus being “active”. This will be done through demos, explicit material and exercises within the following contexts; simple massage, bathing, dressing, table service and setting aside *play-pen time. (*play-pen time denotes quality time set aside to explore and practice something learned along with real-time feedback).

What to bring and what to wear?
Wear comfortable attire; bring two bath towels along with a pen/pencil and notebook.

Includes edible treats and jazzy H20
Please Note:

For a private Sensual Synergy Experience for Couples, please inquire.

Date: Tuesday, June 5th, 2012 (group setting)
Time: 7pm -10pm (3hrs)
Location: Toronto West
SPACE IS LIMITED
Cost:
$120/couple EARLY Bird (before Jun 2nd)
Cost: $140/couple

Register:
viktoria@playfulloving.com

416-887-5621

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Dynamic Women’s Circle

May 10, 2012

Dynamic Women's Circle Monthly Gathering Nearest You

DYNAMIC Women’s Circle (monthly gathering)

  • exceptional
  • educational
  • empowering

Affirming Sensual, Sexy and Sassy Confidence
image photographer: Alisa Verner

Attention to ALL the Women I know and to those I have yet to meet. In the spirit of affirming the feminine sexual intelligence,  empowerment and confidence. I am reclaiming the women’s circle concept to bring you a DYNAMIC Women’s Circle. Join us for a candid educational dialogue and exchange on sensuality and sexuality subjects that you may be curious about or are looking to better understand, get a few tips,  or to receive an affirmation.

This will be done through a supportive monthly dynamic women’s circle, that WE as a group, will be cultivating and nurturing.

To get the ball rolling, current topic(s) will be chosen from anonymous written questions that will be answered at that gathering pending time frame.  If you want to get your question to me sooner, please sent it to viktoria@playfulloving.com

The monthly topics that are not covered during that gathering will be covered in the next gathering as we only have a few hours, before we have to return to our friends, family, and lovers.

The DYNAMIC Women’s Circle includes edible treats with jazzy H2O.

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Etobicoke
| 2nd Thursday of the month
Playful Loving Lounge, 9 Vickson Court, Etobicoke, M9B1K5
8pm – 10pm

  • Thu., Jun 14th
  • Thu., Jul 12th
  • Thu., Aug 9th

$30/person
$25/person for two or more
RSVP:
viktoria@playfulloving.com
416-887-5621

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Toronto Downtown | 2nd Sunday of the month
Good For Her, 175 Harbord Street, Toronto, M5S1H3
2:00pm – 4:00pm

  • Sun., Jul 8th
  • Sun., Aug 12th
  • Sun., Sep 9th

$30/person
$25/person for two or more
RSVP:
info@goodforher.com
(416)-588-0900

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Eglington East | 2nd Tuesday of the month
ApexHouse, Toronto, M1J2K5
8pm – 10pm

  • Tue., Jun 12th
  • Tue., Jul 10th
  • Tue., Aug 14th

$30/person
$25/person for two or more
RSVP:
viktoria@playfulloving.com
416-887-5621

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Adventurous Play for Couples

March 4, 2012

Kinky (Adventurous) Play WORKSHOP for Couples

Ever wonder where to begin your kinky adventure? Looking to spice things up? Want to enhance your erotic space together?  Learn how everyday items can become sexually charged. Understand the exchange of power dynamics. Conjure and create infinite possibilities for erotic space together. This will be done through demonstrations, exercises and explicit viewing material (not necessarily in that order).

Recommended media, products and books will be shown.

What to bring and what to wear?
Wear comfortable attire; bring an open mind,  a pen/pencil and notebook.

Please Note:
For a private Adventurous Play Workshop for Couples, please inquire.

Date: Saturday, June 9th, 2012
Time: 2pm -5pm (3hrs)
Location: Toronto West
SPACE IS LIMITED
Cost:
$100/couple EARLY Bird (before Jun 5th)
Cost: $120/couple

Register:
viktoria@playfulloving.com

416-887-5621

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Body Worship for Couples

January 26, 2012

Sensual Massage Workshop for Couples

Sensual Massage WORKSHOP for Couples (3hrs)

Crave the realm of Body Worship? Want to share this with your partner?  Want to enhance your sensual touch skills? Learn to take away the day-to-day stresses? Ever wonder how to get your partner to relax and become puddy in your hands?  Become present, attentive and attuned in YOUR erotic space. Learn to give and receive the pleasures of a sensual massage. Take turns becoming “active” and “receptive” to your lover’s sensual energy.

Includes massage oil and reference notes.
Recommended media and books will also be shown.

Important Note: There will be NO genital massage.

What to bring?
Wear a bathing suit and bring two large bath towels.

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Vulva 101 Foreword Written by Moi

November 6, 2011

REVIEWS of the just (fall 2011) released coffee table book: Vulva 101 by Hylton Coxwell and moi writing the Foreward

“As a sex educator, I find myself empowering women with the appropriate knowledge that makes them wiser, more confident and self-assured—what I refer to as a “sexy balance in life.” Vulva 101 expresses the visual beauty and enhances the understanding that each uniquely wonderful woman/vulva should be revered with respect and honour. It’s about time!”  – Viktoria Kalenteris www.playfulloving.com

Vulva 101 is a great resource for anyone who wants to honour the female sex organ. After 40 years of teaching women about orgasm, vulva appreciation in the first step in her sexual healing.” – Betty Dodson, PhD sexologist www.dodsonandross.com

“A fascinating photographic exploration of a part of the female body that is so desired, so complex and so discussed—but so very rarely considered. Each page is as unique invitation to learn and experience more.” – Jon Pressick, Managing Editor, Sex Life Canada www.sexlifecanada.ca

Vulva 101 Foreword
By Viktoria Kalenteris

Finally! It’s about time someone made the connection between the academic, anatomical medical diagrams to the “up close” and personally intimate visual presence of a woman’s genitalia: a specific focus on the uniqueness of each woman’s vulva.

You will view the external beauty of 101 brave women of all ages. All the participants, including myself, consciously made the decision to help make a difference by exhibiting their physical attributes along with thoughts, experiences, comments, emotions and feelings of empowerment as a compliment to the visual art of the Vulva 101 first edition.

Knowledge is power. Being a sex educator, I was extremely pleased to hear that someone decided to take thought into action and assist in giving back to each woman and man who wants to become more self-aware, have a healthy approach to sexual well-being and nurture sexual confidence. Now that we are constantly bombarded with images and information in the 21st century of cyberspace, here comes a very real and well thought-out relevant piece of information that will be part of each individual’s rite of passage in becoming in becoming a mature, loving human being. The Vulva 101 book is a pioneer of informative sexual and arousing reference material that will be the talk of our time.

Many women I have met and worked with have mentioned repeatedly that they are self-conscious and uncertain of their genital image, let alone their entire body image. The question “Am I normal?” has been asked by many. The answer, yes, you are. Reassuring each woman they are normal and that the anatomical physique and the external visual appeal is different but exquisite, as is each individual snowflake mother nature created.

Hylton has taken the torch in an innovative direction; lighting the way for everyone who seeks understanding, validation and confidence. I am honoured to be part of this project. Thank you!

Warm Empowering Hugs,
Viktoria Kalenteris

Sex Educator/Confidante
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
www.playfulloving.com
“Spice up your sex life today and attain sexual well-being”

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Stoke the Fires of Passion

August 13, 2011

You want to try something different with your partner? Something simple, easy and fun for both of you? Create a delectable menu of the senses. Explore the 5 senses of the body; site, sound, smell, taste and touch. Pace yourselves as you would in a dance. Discover the pleasures of various textures, materials, food, including temperature play with ice or just your hot breathe. 

Stimulate your thoughts, delve into your creative juices, and arouse your senses.  In this day and age, we have ample visual inspirations from fashion to porn magazines, specialized boutiques and sexy clothing shops, from the block buster movie to the instructional dvd, from private to public events to the art and theatre of different cultures.

How do you go about doing this? You start with what you enjoy feeling, seeing, tasting, touching, hearing and anticipating. Then add something new to the mix. Keep in mind the the kinky play philosophy: safe, sane, consensual and risk aware when delving into new territory, activities with or without toys. This way you can keep stoking the fires of passion.

 

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Playpen Time

June 18, 2011

What is playpen time? Its booked quality time that you set aside with your partner to discover, explore and experiment something new or different in a relaxed, open minded, non judgemental atmosphere. Take a bath together, light some candles, listen to soothing sexy music, light the fireplace, send the kids to a movie or away for the night and lay about on your favourite texture (fresh cotton, silky satin, smooth leather, shiny latex or soft fur).

Playpen time may be about a new position, skill, technique, discussing turn ons, role playing, toys, new adventures, costumes, fantasies or just exchanging about past or present experiences. This way you can bypass the awkward feelings of rejection or dissatisfaction or an interruption in the energy of a really good sex play session. Instead you will find out how things work best for each other. Enhancing your body awareness and heightening anticipation. Communicating what works along with your likes and dislikes. This type of activity will definitely enhance your spontaneous play time. So why not set aside quality Playpen Time with your partner today or twice a week. Keep in mind this is a time to be silly, laugh and enjoy playful loving.

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Carpe Diem Approach to Sex

March 8, 2011

On her own, Lady Viktoria finds inspiration with a carpe diem approach to sex. “I welcome the passion for life and embrace the wisdom of love with self-confidence and a sense of humour, while nurturing the knowledge of self-empowerment.” She describes where sex starts, internally, and moves within her. “For me, this all begins in the mind’s eye, which then transcends into the heart and soul. To bring it to my mind’s attention the seeds can be sown with a look, or a tender touch, or a sweet caress, or maybe a soft whisper, or possibly just a smile, then again it could be intimate laughter. Electrical pulses of arousal are sparked within the mind as it conjures up erotic images, which feed the craving of charged anticipation. The ebb and flow of bodies’ entwined, long deep breaths of energy are exchanged as the primal connection is made enhancing the bonding chemicals of our natural love drug. In the carnal fashion; lips meet mouths; tongues lick, teeth nibble, fingers and hands discover and explore the mounds of throbbing flesh and the moist wet crevices with the intention of pleasing and being pleased. Soft moonlight plays with the shadows to highlight supple curves, flexing muscles and curved bodies creating a visually dynamic ‘art in motion’.”- written for SexLifeCanada (your guide to sex positive culture) posted in the Featured Personality area

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